- First let me explain what the “Clubhouse”
is and who its members are. The
Clubhouse was first called the Intensive Outpatient Therapy Program for the
“Chronic Mentally Ill” or “CMI” patients.
To euphemize the term it was renamed the Clubhouse even though all the
care and treatment remained the same.
During this era of euphemizing they began to refer to the patients as “clients”. At that time they also changed the term to
“Serious Mentally Ill” or “SMI”. The
criteria to qualify for this program was that the person had to be
institutionalized at least two time or have been diagnosed with a severe mental
disorder for at least ten years. When
many of the clients are discharged from our state mental hospitals they are
referred to programs in their area like the Clubhouse.
At the Clubhouse their medication and
behavior is monitored daily. They
receive training in caring for themselves with the ultimate goal of improving to
the point of being able to gain employment and returning to live as normal life
as possible on their own. However, due
to the seriousness of some of their illnesses some are never able to reach that
point. Over the years we have come to
know and love many of the clients who are in this status. We are always thankful for those who improve
and are able to leave the program but still we miss them greatly. Two of them, Calvin and Willie W., have passed
away, both were loved and near the heart of many of our members here at
Eastlawn.
Even though all of these clients are
mentally ill and in most cases their behavior is somewhat different, yet we
find them to be caring and gentle people.
Those patients that show violent tendencies are excluded from the
program. However, due to their mental
illnesses they have made many bad choices in their lives which have left them
with little or no support base in their lives.
Due to their chronic depression and lack of family love and support many
find little joy and happiness in their lives.
Believe me, if they did not have the limitations in their reasoning, due
to their illness, they would not have made many of choices in life that has
alienated them from their friends and family.
A little over 20 years ago while I was
serving as the Mental Health Commissioner of Jackson County I was informed that
we had inadvertently left out of our budget the line item for the Christmas
program for the Clubhouse which was $10.00 per client. There was to be $5.00 for a gift and $5.00
for their Christmas meal. Due to budget restraints we were unable to borrow or
take from another program. I brought
this dilemma to the Joyce Hamilton Sunday School Class and they gladly
accepted. Each client gave us a wish
list of one present, (most were hair dryers, cologne or underwear) and our class
members adopted the clients and donated the money for the meal which at that
time was prepared by the Clubhouse staff.
Due to confidentiality concerns only Rev.
Loney Joe Hallberg, Robert Weathersby, Mickey and I were allowed attend. Robert led us in Christmas carols, Loney Joe
gave a Christmas devotion and for the next couple of years this was the
procedure. During this time the trust of
the clients toward us was very limited to say the least. However, with the staff’s permission we were
able to bring a small group to sing to the clients. About that time someone suggested that we
give two presents instead of the one and other Sunday school classes asked to
participate, some by donating money and others by adopting the clients. But as soon as the clients began to accept us
the limitations were lifted and many of from Eastlawn attended the
parties. All the first parties were
held at their facility on Eleventh Street until it was destroyed by Hurricane
Georges. Since Hurricane Georges the
Christmas parties have been held here at Eastlawn with the exception of when
Katrina damaged our Church and that year it was held at one of their facilities
the McClamrock Center.
As I pointed out earlier, the clients find
it hard to trust anyone and that included us.
About the fifth year of the parties, after receiving the gifts and the
meal one of the female client standing about ten feet from said, “Can I give
you a hug?” The ice was broken and many
of the clients will now give hugs and handshakes. Eastlawn is now embedded in their hearts.
When I go to the Clubhouse someone will always ask me, “Are you from the
Church?”
Almost every Christmas party we hear one of
the staff members tell us that this is the first time they have seen some of
the clients smile since the last Christmas party. Over the years we have moved from giving them
a “Christmas party” to giving them a “Christmas”. For many this will be the only Christmas they
know. We set a goal that each receives
at least three nice gifts, a box of candy, a stocking bag containing fruit,
candy, popcorn etc.) and some music
CD’s. With this comes a meal that can be
described as a feast along with great entertainment.
Sometimes their wish list seems
extravagant but when we consider that they are not able to work (at no fault of
their own) in fact, that their greatest hope and prayer is that they will get
well enough to be able to work. Most do
qualify for SSI which is about $550.00 a month which most of it goes to their
rent leaving them with little or nothing each month for the pleasures we often
take for granted. In their dark world
they strive to live a normal or as near normal life as possible. They too like comforters, little kitchen
appliances, DVD players and new clothes.
The only way they can have these nice things are from people who
understand and care about their situation.
Mental illness is no different than many other illnesses, a chemical
imbalance, which can debilitate a person as other illnesses can affect us. Over
the years mental patients has been ostracized as those who suffered from mental
illness or leprosy in Jesus’ lifetime.
Each year we have an opportunity to bless
someone with the true joy of Christmas.
With this program we can say and show love to a person who needs it the
most. One of my favorite verses in the
Bible, one that Jesus himself said that goes like this, “When you have done unto
the least of these you have done unto me.”